问:吾家有四子,其中老二花天酒地,不听劝导,有何办法?
师答:子女同是一母所生,有好有坏,此乃他们前世带来的习气,各有不同,并不是你们父母之遗传,为人父母已尽到你们教育的责任,若不改正,是他们的因果问题,将来招报受苦的,是他们自己。做父母的又何必过于为他们操心呢?只要是看破放下就好了。
问:吾家有四子,其中老二花天酒地,不听劝导,有何办法?
师答:子女同是一母所生,有好有坏,此乃他们前世带来的习气,各有不同,并不是你们父母之遗传,为人父母已尽到你们教育的责任,若不改正,是他们的因果问题,将来招报受苦的,是他们自己。做父母的又何必过于为他们操心呢?只要是看破放下就好了。
我们有,别人没有而需要的,我们给他称为布施。如果别人有,我们给他,则不称布施。比如说穷人没有东西吃,我们给他食物,这样就叫布施。
布施和供养不同,给一般人称为布施。但是给父母、长者、老师,和出家人都叫供养。
无论是布施或是供养,都可叫做种福田。
布施免嫉难,
布施生欢喜,
布施得太平,
布施为福田。
By LingZhi
“Meditate. Live purely. Be quiet. Do your work with mastery. Like the moon come out from behind the clouds. Shine” – Buddha.
The potential of our minds is immense. Every day, every minute, every second, hundreds and thousands of thoughts go through us. We are constantly thinking. Even when we are sleeping, our minds can still be working – we dream!
Since our minds play such an important function in our lives, it is important to learn to control our minds. For positive thoughts will translate into our actions and make our lives a better one.
But how can we do that?
So, over the recent years, I have come to appreciate meditation.
My work is relatively hectic. Throughout a working day, various work issues will need to be resolved by a certain cut off timing within the same day. Hence, with such intensity at work, I become irritable and impatient easily.
Whenever I meditate, the after effects last for a few days! I am better able to concentrate at work, stay focused, and resolve any issues quickly! Stress levels are gradually reduced as I am able to deliver work more effectively.
The benefits of meditation are endless. I still am impatient and can be irritable, but these have been drastically reduced. A new colleague mentioned recently: “You always look very happy. Is it because you are a Buddhist or a Christian?” I replied with a wide smile: “Yes, I am a Buddhist!”
While being a Buddhist does not equate to being happy, learning and practicing Buddha’s teachings in my daily life certainly made me a happier person than before.
问:修法时妄念很多怎么办?
师答:这是工夫不成熟,只要把握原则经常如此修,智慧就会生起来。有了智慧要行菩萨道。但行菩萨道不是把师父传法的内容讲出来,而是随机说法。