By Ru Lan 

I found Jen Chen Buddhism ten years ago. Following the Teachings of Jen Chen Buddhism wholeheartedly without any query, I gradually eradicated my bad habits.

Though I did not have the chance to meet Venerable Master Shen Kai in person, I was still able to be with Him when reading his books and listening to his talks on the Buddha’s Teachings on discs. Venerable Master Shen Kai prepared and wrote the daily morning and evening practice routines for His disciples and every method is also a path for cultivation. I really regret not cultivating conscientiously enough, for not putting enough effort and not achieving good enough results. For instance, recalling one of his Teachings ‘One would rather die than to reveal other’s misdeeds’, I wonder whether there was a time when I had never complained or gossiped about someone else’s mistake or wrongdoing, and I realised my answer was “No!” Now I strive to say good things at all times, to only talk about work or school and not about people, to refrain from gossiping about people, and to focus on carrying out my duties well.

One particular Teaching of ‘Do not be too attached to one’s ego and outlook or appearance’ has the most effect on me. I used to spend lots of time on my personal appearance in the past. Ever since I understood that our bodies are simply empty shells, I no longer regard looks as much as I did before. I stopped spending money on facials, styling my hair and buying expensive clothes and cosmetics. I know all these are just an illusion and unnecessary as long as we dress neatly and appropriately. What’s most important is to make good use of our body given to us by our parents to do many things that benefit others, to follow the Buddha’s Teachings in our daily lives and never do evil things. We need to purify our minds and increase our blessings and wisdom so as not to waste the opportunity as a human in this lifetime.

I would self-reflect on my actions everyday. I pledge to follow the Buddhadharma to cultivate in every way so as not do injustice to our gracious Master.

By Sin Lei

While holidaying in Cambodia, I met an old British couple who were on the same one-day tour that we signed up to. During the tour, we went to a village and observed how the Cambodian villagers lived. It was an eventful day.

During our lunch break, the British husband shared that his son used to work in Japan as a part-time worker for a company that produces batteries. As the Japanese boss had a poor command of English, his son went beyond his job scope to help the boss create presentation slides, prepare meeting minutes and review documents in English everyday. 

Then, one day, the boss asked the son if he would like to relocate to the company’s South America branch, to work in a new role. The son was surprised by the offer. He clearly did not expect the opportunity as he was only a part-time worker. Upon hearing the offer, the son’s immediate reaction was: “But I know nothing about batteries!”  The boss, however, was confident that the son would be able to excel in the role and insisted that he take up the job offer. Eventually, the son accepted the offer and went to South America.

I was truly touched by this sharing. This was a real life situation of a young man, who, although was only a part-time worker and not earning as much as a full-time worker, did his best for his boss and the company without expecting any returns.

After I reached my hotel that evening, I reflected on myself. I had always thought that I was a responsible worker, who would occasionally go out of the way to help my bosses and colleagues to complete work that did not belong to me. However, there were also occasions where I could have offered more assistance to my colleagues, but I did not. As such, how could I consider myself as being responsible?  I should treat all my colleagues equally and offer the same quality assistance and responsiveness to each of them.

Apart from going out of his way to help the boss, the son of the British couple must have exhibited other positive traits which the boss liked so much that he would offer the son, who had no prior relevant work experience, a relocation package. I reflected on myself again. Are there any other aspects which I need to improve on? Apparently, yes. There were times when I was not tolerant of other people’s mistakes and I was also mean to colleagues who were a bit slow. Thus, I should learn to be more accommodating so that a more harmonious work environment can be achieved.  

I will definitely need to work on my attitude when I am back to work!